I met with Jade and we talked about my abandonment issues with him.  I told him that I felt that he was abandoning me because it wasn't important for him to schedule me an appointment the week prior.  I totally went into a tail spin on the week that I did not have a session with him.  The day that I was going to meet with him, he needed to cancel my appointment because of a family conflict.  This made things worse for me.  I then told him to cancel my future appointments because I couldn't do the appointments any more, where I wondered if I was going to have an appointment or if I wasn't, etc. 

So, as we talked about my abandonment issue with him, he pointed out that I abandoned him before he would ever abandon me.  He pointed out that I do this with all of my relationships.